I gave this girl alot of attention, so i think she lost interest. She appears to be hanging out with other guys more and stuff. I want to regain her interest levels if its possible, would be a good excerise for me. How would i go about doing this?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Interest levels
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
Grab her butt and give a wink
. Just start talking with her more so that she knows that you are interested in her and apply kino with talking.Re: Re: Interest levels
Like my personal idea was to limit contact with her. But if i do that, i think it would just kill it, because she wouldnt respond to it. So i might have to go back in with kino like you said.Originally posted by white cloud 8
Grab her butt and give a wink
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
be sure to make every girl earn your attention next tiem rather than giving her a whole bunch of it
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
Master Don Juan
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68762
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attitude#5
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attraction#6
Follow these three links. Then read the rest of the DJB (from your previous posts I'm assuming you haven't bothered to take the time to do this, or if you have, you haven't applied much from it to your own life.)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68762
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attitude#5
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attraction#6
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