I gave this girl alot of attention, so i think she lost interest. She appears to be hanging out with other guys more and stuff. I want to regain her interest levels if its possible, would be a good excerise for me. How would i go about doing this?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Interest levels
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
Grab her butt and give a wink
. Just start talking with her more so that she knows that you are interested in her and apply kino with talking.Re: Re: Interest levels
Like my personal idea was to limit contact with her. But if i do that, i think it would just kill it, because she wouldnt respond to it. So i might have to go back in with kino like you said.Originally posted by white cloud 8
Grab her butt and give a wink
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
be sure to make every girl earn your attention next tiem rather than giving her a whole bunch of it
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: Interest levels
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68762
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attitude#5
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attraction#6
Follow these three links. Then read the rest of the DJB (from your previous posts I'm assuming you haven't bothered to take the time to do this, or if you have, you haven't applied much from it to your own life.)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68762
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attitude#5
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attraction#6
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