I gave this girl alot of attention, so i think she lost interest. She appears to be hanging out with other guys more and stuff. I want to regain her interest levels if its possible, would be a good excerise for me. How would i go about doing this?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
Grab her butt and give a wink
. Just start talking with her more so that she knows that you are interested in her and apply kino with talking.Re: Re: Interest levels
Like my personal idea was to limit contact with her. But if i do that, i think it would just kill it, because she wouldnt respond to it. So i might have to go back in with kino like you said.Originally posted by white cloud 8
Grab her butt and give a wink
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
be sure to make every girl earn your attention next tiem rather than giving her a whole bunch of it
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: Interest levels
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68762
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attitude#5
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attraction#6
Follow these three links. Then read the rest of the DJB (from your previous posts I'm assuming you haven't bothered to take the time to do this, or if you have, you haven't applied much from it to your own life.)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68762
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attitude#5
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=attraction#6
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