"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interest Level Scale

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've actually had an interest level go from 100% to 0%. My pathetic AFC days are over.
 
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Right now Troops, I'm at a point in my life where being able to decifer, designate, and determine a woman's interest level in ME has quickly become my most important mission.

The time I spend acquiring and honing just THIS aspect of DJing will save me so much time, heartache, and money it ain't even funny...


BUMP!
 
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I know I have only been here for a short time but this is the greatest thread starter I have seen by far...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To the op great thread.:rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
 
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So what is her IL percentile for me: I started out nice with her with a funny/nice combination. She hinted she had a boyfriend and I still talked to her though. We flirted a lot though, but back then I was the nice/funny with a little bit of ****y in there.

This year, I was all ****y and funny. I neg. her a lot and she always was laughing and joking around with me. She loved touching my coat and playin with the zipper. We hang out sometimes, me initiating it, although she texted me and IMed me in which I got both her sn and cell because of her initiating the convo. She doesn't hug me though, why I tell myself? I don't even know why she wont hug me. But this year, I have def. neg. her and used my ****y/funny. I am not the nice guy back in Paragraph One. Yesterday she asked me to watch a bball game with her after school on which I did....Today, I walked to her for a little bit, but made sure I kept my space between her and me? So what is my percentile?
 
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