"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interest Level Scale

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've actually had an interest level go from 100% to 0%. My pathetic AFC days are over.
 
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Right now Troops, I'm at a point in my life where being able to decifer, designate, and determine a woman's interest level in ME has quickly become my most important mission.

The time I spend acquiring and honing just THIS aspect of DJing will save me so much time, heartache, and money it ain't even funny...


BUMP!
 
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I know I have only been here for a short time but this is the greatest thread starter I have seen by far...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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To the op great thread.:rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
 
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So what is her IL percentile for me: I started out nice with her with a funny/nice combination. She hinted she had a boyfriend and I still talked to her though. We flirted a lot though, but back then I was the nice/funny with a little bit of ****y in there.

This year, I was all ****y and funny. I neg. her a lot and she always was laughing and joking around with me. She loved touching my coat and playin with the zipper. We hang out sometimes, me initiating it, although she texted me and IMed me in which I got both her sn and cell because of her initiating the convo. She doesn't hug me though, why I tell myself? I don't even know why she wont hug me. But this year, I have def. neg. her and used my ****y/funny. I am not the nice guy back in Paragraph One. Yesterday she asked me to watch a bball game with her after school on which I did....Today, I walked to her for a little bit, but made sure I kept my space between her and me? So what is my percentile?
 
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