"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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The time I spend acquiring and honing just THIS aspect of DJing will save me so much time, heartache, and money it ain't even funny...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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This year, I was all ****y and funny. I neg. her a lot and she always was laughing and joking around with me. She loved touching my coat and playin with the zipper. We hang out sometimes, me initiating it, although she texted me and IMed me in which I got both her sn and cell because of her initiating the convo. She doesn't hug me though, why I tell myself? I don't even know why she wont hug me. But this year, I have def. neg. her and used my ****y/funny. I am not the nice guy back in Paragraph One. Yesterday she asked me to watch a bball game with her after school on which I did....Today, I walked to her for a little bit, but made sure I kept my space between her and me? So what is my percentile?