romanticman
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If a girls interest wanes .How long do you guys recommend of non contactto get her interest level up high?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Interest down.How long to keep away please.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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romanticman
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Ok..so if I leave her for a few days..say 10 days this should let me know if she is into me? Is 10 days enough ?less or more?
teacha
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why would you initiate no contact to girls with high interest level?DJ_Hero said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
What's the use of playing games when she got high IL already?DJ_Hero said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
i call it playing 'games' if you are using no contact for the primary purpose of getting her back or getting her IL up again.DJ_Hero said:
however, if you use no contact and dont actually care whether she comes back or not, i call it moving on.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.