romanticman
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If a girls interest wanes .How long do you guys recommend of non contactto get her interest level up high?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Interest down.How long to keep away please.
- Thread starter romanticman
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
romanticman
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Ok..so if I leave her for a few days..say 10 days this should let me know if she is into me? Is 10 days enough ?less or more?
teacha
Senior Don Juan
why would you initiate no contact to girls with high interest level?DJ_Hero said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
What's the use of playing games when she got high IL already?DJ_Hero said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
i call it playing 'games' if you are using no contact for the primary purpose of getting her back or getting her IL up again.DJ_Hero said:
however, if you use no contact and dont actually care whether she comes back or not, i call it moving on.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.