romanticman
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If a girls interest wanes .How long do you guys recommend of non contactto get her interest level up high?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Interest down.How long to keep away please.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
romanticman
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Ok..so if I leave her for a few days..say 10 days this should let me know if she is into me? Is 10 days enough ?less or more?
teacha
Senior Don Juan
why would you initiate no contact to girls with high interest level?DJ_Hero said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
What's the use of playing games when she got high IL already?DJ_Hero said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
i call it playing 'games' if you are using no contact for the primary purpose of getting her back or getting her IL up again.DJ_Hero said:
however, if you use no contact and dont actually care whether she comes back or not, i call it moving on.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.