romanticman
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2010
- Messages
- 73
- Reaction score
- 6
If a girls interest wanes .How long do you guys recommend of non contactto get her interest level up high?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Interest down.How long to keep away please.
- Thread starter romanticman
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
romanticman
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2010
- Messages
- 73
- Reaction score
- 6
Ok..so if I leave her for a few days..say 10 days this should let me know if she is into me? Is 10 days enough ?less or more?
teacha
Senior Don Juan
why would you initiate no contact to girls with high interest level?DJ_Hero said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
What's the use of playing games when she got high IL already?DJ_Hero said:
teacha
Senior Don Juan
i call it playing 'games' if you are using no contact for the primary purpose of getting her back or getting her IL up again.DJ_Hero said:
however, if you use no contact and dont actually care whether she comes back or not, i call it moving on.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.