Interest dead

[Hyper2010]

Just a quick question...

Paid a quick visit to my GFs today on the way home from work.

She made me a coffee and we had a chat for a while. She is currently suffering from Epilepsy and is taking 3 different kinds of MEDs including anti-depressants.

After a while she said she would like to spen evening alone just having a bath and chilling out, so I felt that was a strong hint to leave which I did.

Im wondering:

What would you guys do?

Acknowledge that she is going through a lot with all the MEDS and just give her time and space to relax?

Or view this as a red flag of interest level being killed? Initiate more challenge, as to be honest mine is border-line complacent at the moment

Any ideas?? Be brutal

 

[JoeMarron]

Don't stay in relationships with crazy chicks. It's not worth it and will only result in frustration and pain.

 

[pinkfl]

Don't stay in relationships with crazy chicks. It's not worth it and will only result in frustration and pain.

Epilepsy is a disease.
It's not the same thing as having a personality disorder.

Hyper2010, the medication is likely having a very strong effect on her right now, and if she's just starting out on them there is an adjustment period. Specifically, her sex drive will be killed with them. It's not that she's not interested in you, is that her body is working against her. If she's your girlfriend, and you have strong feelings for her, I would advise openly communicating what you want. If intimacy is an issue, bring it up to her. She can talk to her doctor to adjust the dosage so that it doesn't interfere with your relationship. Good luck.

 

[JoeMarron]

Epilepsy is a disease.
It's not the same thing as having a personality disorder.

Hyper2010, the medication is likely having a very strong effect on her right now, and if she's just starting out on them there is an adjustment period. Specifically, her sex drive will be killed with them. It's not that she's not interested in you, is that her body is working against her. If she's your girlfriend, and you have strong feelings for her, I would advise openly communicating what you want. If intimacy is an issue, bring it up to her. She can talk to her doctor to adjust the dosage so that it doesn't interfere with your relationship. Good luck.

Missed the epilepsy part. Anyways the situation is the same. She's not in an opitimal mental state and there's nothing TC can do about it. Stick it out if you want man just know that it'll be an uphill battle

 

[Demonpenz]

Spin plates. Maybe if she really wants you she will control her shaking.

 

[LongLostFriend]

Just go do something else. Sometimes people just need their space.

Even if you're in a committed relationship with her, your life should be full enough to include several pursuits that do not depend or revolve around her. That's just healthy.