"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just a quick question...

Paid a quick visit to my GFs today on the way home from work.

She made me a coffee and we had a chat for a while. She is currently suffering from Epilepsy and is taking 3 different kinds of MEDs including anti-depressants.

After a while she said she would like to spen evening alone just having a bath and chilling out, so I felt that was a strong hint to leave which I did.

Im wondering:

What would you guys do?

Acknowledge that she is going through a lot with all the MEDS and just give her time and space to relax?

Or view this as a red flag of interest level being killed? Initiate more challenge, as to be honest mine is border-line complacent at the moment

Any ideas?? Be brutal
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't stay in relationships with crazy chicks. It's not worth it and will only result in frustration and pain.
 
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JoeMarron said:
Don't stay in relationships with crazy chicks. It's not worth it and will only result in frustration and pain.
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Epilepsy is a disease.
It's not the same thing as having a personality disorder.

Hyper2010, the medication is likely having a very strong effect on her right now, and if she's just starting out on them there is an adjustment period. Specifically, her sex drive will be killed with them. It's not that she's not interested in you, is that her body is working against her. If she's your girlfriend, and you have strong feelings for her, I would advise openly communicating what you want. If intimacy is an issue, bring it up to her. She can talk to her doctor to adjust the dosage so that it doesn't interfere with your relationship. Good luck.
 
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pinkfl said:
Epilepsy is a disease.
It's not the same thing as having a personality disorder.

Hyper2010, the medication is likely having a very strong effect on her right now, and if she's just starting out on them there is an adjustment period. Specifically, her sex drive will be killed with them. It's not that she's not interested in you, is that her body is working against her. If she's your girlfriend, and you have strong feelings for her, I would advise openly communicating what you want. If intimacy is an issue, bring it up to her. She can talk to her doctor to adjust the dosage so that it doesn't interfere with your relationship. Good luck.
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Missed the epilepsy part. Anyways the situation is the same. She's not in an opitimal mental state and there's nothing TC can do about it. Stick it out if you want man just know that it'll be an uphill battle
 
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Spin plates. Maybe if she really wants you she will control her shaking.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just go do something else. Sometimes people just need their space.

Even if you're in a committed relationship with her, your life should be full enough to include several pursuits that do not depend or revolve around her. That's just healthy.
 
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