"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Intercourse and Intelligence

sexybeast

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For the record im dyslexic, and yes I get plenty of hole. If i was more intelligent I would be making some of the most powerful posts around :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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backbreaker said:
the reason intelligent men don't get laid is because they are all on fourms like this one, talking, researching and debating on why they can't get laid

actualy those are the idiots,they just haven't discovered it ,the real intelligent ones figured out long ago how to get the nookie and were never heard from again :whistle:
 

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Nighthawk said:
Intelligent men get laid all the time, and there are plenty of stupid virgins - but I would suggest that intelligent men are also the ones most likely to be familiar with feminism and thus ashamed of their sexuality.
I would also suggest that intelligent men [qualifer:] who are inexperienced tend to overthink, overanalyze, and rationalize their interaction with women far too much. They tend get stuck in their cerebral world where they get too nervous of all the possible outcomes to act, and thus never make any moves.
 

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I think stupid people are equally prone to that too. You just have to read some of the posts here.
 

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Serialized3 said:
I would also suggest that intelligent men [qualifer:] who are inexperienced tend to overthink, overanalyze, and rationalize their interaction with women far too much. They tend get stuck in their cerebral world where they get too nervous of all the possible outcomes to act, and thus never make any moves.
it's almost like their intelligence is also just a wall for them to hide behind.I'm too smart,I don't have to deal with this (uncomfortable situations) guess what? life can be uncomfortable,but those are the moments where we learn and grow the most,ya knowZ :cool:

I also think that smart guys try too hard to understand and compartmentalize how they feel but they do it logicaly. Sounds cheesy,but they are trying to use their heads to understand their hearts :nono:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bible_Belt said:
Also, people who are smart tend to have fewer people with whom they make an emotional connection;

Very, very true. I'm not exactly what one would call a genius, but I do possess an above average IQ. I find myself placing a lot of significance on the intelligence of a girl when I determine how attractive she is or not. As a result, I suffer from one-itis very often, because it is very difficult for me to find and hook up with the girls that meet my specific standards. When I find one, I really wanna hold on to her.
 
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