Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
backbreaker said:the reason intelligent men don't get laid is because they are all on fourms like this one, talking, researching and debating on why they can't get laid
I would also suggest that intelligent men [qualifer:] who are inexperienced tend to overthink, overanalyze, and rationalize their interaction with women far too much. They tend get stuck in their cerebral world where they get too nervous of all the possible outcomes to act, and thus never make any moves.Nighthawk said:Intelligent men get laid all the time, and there are plenty of stupid virgins - but I would suggest that intelligent men are also the ones most likely to be familiar with feminism and thus ashamed of their sexuality.
it's almost like their intelligence is also just a wall for them to hide behind.I'm too smart,I don't have to deal with this (uncomfortable situations) guess what? life can be uncomfortable,but those are the moments where we learn and grow the most,ya knowZSerialized3 said:I would also suggest that intelligent men [qualifer:] who are inexperienced tend to overthink, overanalyze, and rationalize their interaction with women far too much. They tend get stuck in their cerebral world where they get too nervous of all the possible outcomes to act, and thus never make any moves.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bible_Belt said:Also, people who are smart tend to have fewer people with whom they make an emotional connection;