"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Intercourse and Intelligence

sexybeast

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For the record im dyslexic, and yes I get plenty of hole. If i was more intelligent I would be making some of the most powerful posts around :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backbreaker said:
the reason intelligent men don't get laid is because they are all on fourms like this one, talking, researching and debating on why they can't get laid

actualy those are the idiots,they just haven't discovered it ,the real intelligent ones figured out long ago how to get the nookie and were never heard from again :whistle:
 

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Nighthawk said:
Intelligent men get laid all the time, and there are plenty of stupid virgins - but I would suggest that intelligent men are also the ones most likely to be familiar with feminism and thus ashamed of their sexuality.
I would also suggest that intelligent men [qualifer:] who are inexperienced tend to overthink, overanalyze, and rationalize their interaction with women far too much. They tend get stuck in their cerebral world where they get too nervous of all the possible outcomes to act, and thus never make any moves.
 

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I think stupid people are equally prone to that too. You just have to read some of the posts here.
 

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Serialized3 said:
I would also suggest that intelligent men [qualifer:] who are inexperienced tend to overthink, overanalyze, and rationalize their interaction with women far too much. They tend get stuck in their cerebral world where they get too nervous of all the possible outcomes to act, and thus never make any moves.
it's almost like their intelligence is also just a wall for them to hide behind.I'm too smart,I don't have to deal with this (uncomfortable situations) guess what? life can be uncomfortable,but those are the moments where we learn and grow the most,ya knowZ :cool:

I also think that smart guys try too hard to understand and compartmentalize how they feel but they do it logicaly. Sounds cheesy,but they are trying to use their heads to understand their hearts :nono:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt said:
Also, people who are smart tend to have fewer people with whom they make an emotional connection;

Very, very true. I'm not exactly what one would call a genius, but I do possess an above average IQ. I find myself placing a lot of significance on the intelligence of a girl when I determine how attractive she is or not. As a result, I suffer from one-itis very often, because it is very difficult for me to find and hook up with the girls that meet my specific standards. When I find one, I really wanna hold on to her.
 
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