"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Inspiration for the Masses (Get off your arses)

Pantalones

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I'm new here, but I've already noticed a trend here in the HS forum. There's got to be at least several hundred people here, yet participation is dragging. Contender seems to be our resident "man of action." Good for you! I see a thousand reads by his name but not even 1/100 of the response. Something is wrong here. Posts are getting 3 replies for every 100 views. Suppose everyone clicked twice. That still makes about 47/50 people who read but do not offer their imput. That, my friends, doesn't cut it.

Now, granted, I could be wrong. There could be one fool clicking on each link 100 times. If so, then... I'm an idiot. But I wouldn't wager on it. The moderator's feelings aren't gonna be hurt if this forum dwindles along at a snail's pace. The only one who's going to suffer is YOU. Stop reading this. Get off the computer. Get out of the house. Don't come back until you've pushed your comfort level to a new level.

We all start out as clueless little brats towards women. Some people got lucky and learned all the right moves when they were young. Fine. For people who are just waking up, you have to force yourself to learn if you want to accomplish your dreams. Because everyone dreams about banging models and sleeping with Jessica Alba. It's part of being a man. However, only a handful of men in this world DO. And if you feel that you deserve something better than what you have now, you have to push yourself.

If you're shy, now's the time to get over it. Posting anonymously on the internet is about as worry free as it gets. We're all semi-decent people here, and are here to help, not harass. If you don't have things to contribute, then go out and experiment! Then report back, hear some opinions and get on with it! Do YOURSELF a favor, and take your life into your own hands.

We're here at SoSuave because we all have a common interest. Make it worth your time, make it worth our time, and make some changes in your life! (You, kid in front of the computer who hasn't seen the sunlight in a day... That's your cue! Get outta here and make us proud!)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Steg

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I feel ya man, hell that's why I'm replying lol. Half the time though we really dont have anything to add ecept maybe "read the bible" and "on this page some guy said this"
 

sjchris

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Good post.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rowing_mike

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Pantalones, next time try a shorter, snappier lecture. Maybe something we can actually relate to instead of "You, kid in front of the computer who hasn't seen the sunlight in a day... That's your cue! Get outta here and make us proud!".
 

Pantalones

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For those who missed the point, here's a simple translation:

Participation here is limited. Don't just read. Do something about it.
 
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