"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Inspiration for the Masses (Get off your arses)

Pantalones

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I'm new here, but I've already noticed a trend here in the HS forum. There's got to be at least several hundred people here, yet participation is dragging. Contender seems to be our resident "man of action." Good for you! I see a thousand reads by his name but not even 1/100 of the response. Something is wrong here. Posts are getting 3 replies for every 100 views. Suppose everyone clicked twice. That still makes about 47/50 people who read but do not offer their imput. That, my friends, doesn't cut it.

Now, granted, I could be wrong. There could be one fool clicking on each link 100 times. If so, then... I'm an idiot. But I wouldn't wager on it. The moderator's feelings aren't gonna be hurt if this forum dwindles along at a snail's pace. The only one who's going to suffer is YOU. Stop reading this. Get off the computer. Get out of the house. Don't come back until you've pushed your comfort level to a new level.

We all start out as clueless little brats towards women. Some people got lucky and learned all the right moves when they were young. Fine. For people who are just waking up, you have to force yourself to learn if you want to accomplish your dreams. Because everyone dreams about banging models and sleeping with Jessica Alba. It's part of being a man. However, only a handful of men in this world DO. And if you feel that you deserve something better than what you have now, you have to push yourself.

If you're shy, now's the time to get over it. Posting anonymously on the internet is about as worry free as it gets. We're all semi-decent people here, and are here to help, not harass. If you don't have things to contribute, then go out and experiment! Then report back, hear some opinions and get on with it! Do YOURSELF a favor, and take your life into your own hands.

We're here at SoSuave because we all have a common interest. Make it worth your time, make it worth our time, and make some changes in your life! (You, kid in front of the computer who hasn't seen the sunlight in a day... That's your cue! Get outta here and make us proud!)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I feel ya man, hell that's why I'm replying lol. Half the time though we really dont have anything to add ecept maybe "read the bible" and "on this page some guy said this"
 

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Good post.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pantalones, next time try a shorter, snappier lecture. Maybe something we can actually relate to instead of "You, kid in front of the computer who hasn't seen the sunlight in a day... That's your cue! Get outta here and make us proud!".
 

Pantalones

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For those who missed the point, here's a simple translation:

Participation here is limited. Don't just read. Do something about it.
 
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