"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright, here's the go. I'm a virgin (I bloody shouldn't be though).

A few months ago I got with this chick, brought her back to my place with the intent of sex. There she was lying there begging for it, I slip on a condom & I'm between her leg. Here's the problem...

I couldn't get it in her :confused: I was pushing into her vaginal region but it was as if there was no hole, it was like banging my boner against a wall. It was very dark & I've never actually sat there & looked at a *****.

It's really frustrating, I could have had sex multiple times since then but been too scared to go for it in fear that will happen again.

Your advise will be extremely appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She was probably really, really dry.

More foreplay woul.d have gotten her "lubed up" .
 
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Yeah, you're prolly right... I hope.

It's just frustrating, as I'm sure you can imagine. There's this girl that I could easily screw (plus she's moderatly hot), but I admit I am afraid of embarrassing myself with this chick. She's not a virgin, & she thinks I'm not either.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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build up the foreplay beforehand, get her really going.
 
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That's why you have to be sure they are not crossdressers.:crackup:
 
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mmmm thats tight.

Get her worked up first dude, you'll figure it out.
 
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If u cant get her all wet by fingerbanging her or kissin, then get some lube man works like a charm.

I had the same problem as you she was just dry and it wouldnt go in, put sum lube on and slid right in.:woo:
 
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get her worked up first dude. by the time im going to stick it in, most of the time theyre already dripping wet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No offense meant, but this can actually happen in two cases:

a) Your d*ck is not hard enough at the moment. This does not necessarily mean sexual disfunction, you can be too worried, or tired, or anything...

b) You are in a wrong position. I've had a similar problem recently, but after we changed the position, my d*ck went in smoothly.

So. Make sure your erection is OK and indeed try more foreplay and different positions.
 
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