"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright, here's the go. I'm a virgin (I bloody shouldn't be though).

A few months ago I got with this chick, brought her back to my place with the intent of sex. There she was lying there begging for it, I slip on a condom & I'm between her leg. Here's the problem...

I couldn't get it in her :confused: I was pushing into her vaginal region but it was as if there was no hole, it was like banging my boner against a wall. It was very dark & I've never actually sat there & looked at a *****.

It's really frustrating, I could have had sex multiple times since then but been too scared to go for it in fear that will happen again.

Your advise will be extremely appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She was probably really, really dry.

More foreplay woul.d have gotten her "lubed up" .
 
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Yeah, you're prolly right... I hope.

It's just frustrating, as I'm sure you can imagine. There's this girl that I could easily screw (plus she's moderatly hot), but I admit I am afraid of embarrassing myself with this chick. She's not a virgin, & she thinks I'm not either.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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build up the foreplay beforehand, get her really going.
 
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That's why you have to be sure they are not crossdressers.:crackup:
 
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mmmm thats tight.

Get her worked up first dude, you'll figure it out.
 
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If u cant get her all wet by fingerbanging her or kissin, then get some lube man works like a charm.

I had the same problem as you she was just dry and it wouldnt go in, put sum lube on and slid right in.:woo:
 
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get her worked up first dude. by the time im going to stick it in, most of the time theyre already dripping wet.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No offense meant, but this can actually happen in two cases:

a) Your d*ck is not hard enough at the moment. This does not necessarily mean sexual disfunction, you can be too worried, or tired, or anything...

b) You are in a wrong position. I've had a similar problem recently, but after we changed the position, my d*ck went in smoothly.

So. Make sure your erection is OK and indeed try more foreplay and different positions.
 
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