"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alright, here's the go. I'm a virgin (I bloody shouldn't be though).

A few months ago I got with this chick, brought her back to my place with the intent of sex. There she was lying there begging for it, I slip on a condom & I'm between her leg. Here's the problem...

I couldn't get it in her :confused: I was pushing into her vaginal region but it was as if there was no hole, it was like banging my boner against a wall. It was very dark & I've never actually sat there & looked at a *****.

It's really frustrating, I could have had sex multiple times since then but been too scared to go for it in fear that will happen again.

Your advise will be extremely appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She was probably really, really dry.

More foreplay woul.d have gotten her "lubed up" .
 
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Yeah, you're prolly right... I hope.

It's just frustrating, as I'm sure you can imagine. There's this girl that I could easily screw (plus she's moderatly hot), but I admit I am afraid of embarrassing myself with this chick. She's not a virgin, & she thinks I'm not either.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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build up the foreplay beforehand, get her really going.
 
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That's why you have to be sure they are not crossdressers.:crackup:
 
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mmmm thats tight.

Get her worked up first dude, you'll figure it out.
 
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If u cant get her all wet by fingerbanging her or kissin, then get some lube man works like a charm.

I had the same problem as you she was just dry and it wouldnt go in, put sum lube on and slid right in.:woo:
 
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get her worked up first dude. by the time im going to stick it in, most of the time theyre already dripping wet.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No offense meant, but this can actually happen in two cases:

a) Your d*ck is not hard enough at the moment. This does not necessarily mean sexual disfunction, you can be too worried, or tired, or anything...

b) You are in a wrong position. I've had a similar problem recently, but after we changed the position, my d*ck went in smoothly.

So. Make sure your erection is OK and indeed try more foreplay and different positions.
 
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