“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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L777

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is it me or this guy in his own, tiny world?
what a MUPPET
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chrisman is just a stupid troll. He needs to stfu if you ask me:rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by The Juan and only
Chrisman is just a stupid troll. He need to stfu if you ask me:rolleyes:
Oh, look what we got here. A gas sniffin' indian. Oh wait, you guys like to be called "Native Americans" right?
 

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No, I'm from the UK. (and certainly not a native american)..like most of your time-wasting posts, nothing you've said makes sense.

Stop posting such sh1t (or maybe do it more and get yourself banned)...either is good.
 

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This just in:

if you're location clearly specifies you're from the United Kingdom then I regret to inform you that you are actually Native American. :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what the **** are you talking about? that's the stupidest thing I've heard.
 

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Usually when I'm reading through various posts to see whats been said, I filter the bad ones out. Flaming is the best way to lose credibility as far as I'm concerned........next...
 

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Ha ha ha... man you really are acting like a pathetic loser bro, go get a hobby or something that will help you with your insecurity. Unless you haven't noticed this site was made to give geeks (like me) some sort of harness to keep fighting. I am pretty active I do sports and play the guitar (occasionally), work, go to college and go out with my friends. Those things keep my mind active and allows me to keep myself from falling into the hole you seem to be in.

By the way you are probably the worst case of an attention seeking I have seen... You are trying to put everyone down cause you feel so **** about your life that your confidence is in the ground. Let me ask you something what are you afraid of? Are you scared that you might need help along the way?

Bro if you need to talk about your ghosts just tell us about them we will try to help. But as long as you keep trying to boost your ego by trying to hurt people's confidence you are just going to hurt yourself in the long run...

Yea I know you will give me some bull**** about you being the most secure ****er in existence, or about your many sexual encounters but you know as well as I do that the people that have to try to show confidence are those who are really ****ed up inside...

It’s your choice; you can either help others and maybe get some help yourself, or you can waste your time posting **** that will be forgotten in a couple of months, just like you and your ego will be.

Come on I dare you to do your worst; give me all the bull**** about you being the hottest guy around, and how your super confidence and intellect get you all the girls. In the end I have heard it all before.

Love

Amethyst

P.D. Before you do something pathetic like try to flame me on my grammar or spelling please remember that I am bi-lingual and English is not my maiden language.
 

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
what the **** are you talking about? that's the stupidest thing I've heard.
i'ts just a joke mate :)
 

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don't sweat it dude:) I just didn't know what you meant.


+I hate to see Chrisman being encouraged. he can annoy people all by himself and loves to do so:p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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One beer, One desire to get some pvssy should be enough to get you kissing. The first time will be very awkward, like everything else..practice makes perfect.
 

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Unless you haven't noticed this site was made to give geeks (like me) some sort of harness to keep fighting.
Just kill yourself now.

I am pretty active I do sports and play the guitar (occasionally), work, go to college and go out with my friends. Those things keep my mind active and allows me to keep myself from falling into the hole you seem to be in.
You know that the above quote was wrote just above this quote?

By the way you are probably the worst case of an attention seeking I have seen... You are trying to put everyone down cause you feel so **** about your life that your confidence is in the ground. Let me ask you something what are you afraid of? Are you scared that you might need help along the way?
"Along the way". Where am I going lol?

Bro if you need to talk about your ghosts just tell us about them we will try to help.
Hmmm, Bro and ghost in the same sentence. What's next? Anthrax and tampon in the same sentence?

But as long as you keep trying to boost your ego by trying to hurt people's confidence you are just going to hurt yourself in the long run...
I'm not hurting anyone here. I'm just bring insecurities to the surface so people can learn to deal with them instead of bottling them up.

Yea I know you will give me some bull**** about you being the most secure ****er in existence
My friends call me Jesus.

about your many sexual encounters but you know as well as I do that the people that have to try to show confidence are those who are really ****ed up inside...
Like Tiger Woods.

It’s your choice; you can either help others and maybe get some help yourself, or you can waste your time posting **** that will be forgotten in a couple of months, just like you and your ego will be.
Putting it on the line!!

Come on I dare you to do your worst; give me all the bull**** about you being the hottest guy around, and how your super confidence and intellect get you all the girls. In the end I have heard it all before.
:down:

Before you do something pathetic like try to flame me on my grammar or spelling please remember that I am bi-lingual and English is not my maiden language.
Oui, une chapeau.
 

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Originally posted by Emperiorjack
Ive never kissed a girl before and thinking about it makes me nervous. I don't know how its supposed to be done. When I kiss her do I use my tongue? When do I use the tongue? How should I use it? How should my lips be? etc. etc.. Can anyone give me advise it will be greatly appreciated.
Hey, you're me.
How old are you?
 

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When I was 16 and went in for my first kiss I didn't "think" about it. Just do what feels natural. I basically explored her lips and tongue with my lips and tongue. Just keep it soft and easy and try not to slobber. Oh yeah, one more important thing, remember to "breath" through your nose. I held my breath the first time because I thought breathing in her face wouldn't be a good idea (you may not have this problem, I'm just weird like that).
 
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