L777
Master Don Juan
is it me or this guy in his own, tiny world?
what a MUPPET
what a MUPPET
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Insecurities on kissing
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
Chrisman is just a stupid troll. He needs to stfu if you ask me
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Oh, look what we got here. A gas sniffin' indian. Oh wait, you guys like to be called "Native Americans" right?Originally posted by The Juan and only
Chrisman is just a stupid troll. He need to stfu if you ask me
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
No, I'm from the UK. (and certainly not a native american)..like most of your time-wasting posts, nothing you've said makes sense.
Stop posting such sh1t (or maybe do it more and get yourself banned)...either is good.
Stop posting such sh1t (or maybe do it more and get yourself banned)...either is good.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
what the **** are you talking about? that's the stupidest thing I've heard.
LongDrinkofWater
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Usually when I'm reading through various posts to see whats been said, I filter the bad ones out. Flaming is the best way to lose credibility as far as I'm concerned........next...
Ha ha ha... man you really are acting like a pathetic loser bro, go get a hobby or something that will help you with your insecurity. Unless you haven't noticed this site was made to give geeks (like me) some sort of harness to keep fighting. I am pretty active I do sports and play the guitar (occasionally), work, go to college and go out with my friends. Those things keep my mind active and allows me to keep myself from falling into the hole you seem to be in.
By the way you are probably the worst case of an attention seeking I have seen... You are trying to put everyone down cause you feel so **** about your life that your confidence is in the ground. Let me ask you something what are you afraid of? Are you scared that you might need help along the way?
Bro if you need to talk about your ghosts just tell us about them we will try to help. But as long as you keep trying to boost your ego by trying to hurt people's confidence you are just going to hurt yourself in the long run...
Yea I know you will give me some bull**** about you being the most secure ****er in existence, or about your many sexual encounters but you know as well as I do that the people that have to try to show confidence are those who are really ****ed up inside...
It’s your choice; you can either help others and maybe get some help yourself, or you can waste your time posting **** that will be forgotten in a couple of months, just like you and your ego will be.
Come on I dare you to do your worst; give me all the bull**** about you being the hottest guy around, and how your super confidence and intellect get you all the girls. In the end I have heard it all before.
Love
Amethyst
P.D. Before you do something pathetic like try to flame me on my grammar or spelling please remember that I am bi-lingual and English is not my maiden language.
By the way you are probably the worst case of an attention seeking I have seen... You are trying to put everyone down cause you feel so **** about your life that your confidence is in the ground. Let me ask you something what are you afraid of? Are you scared that you might need help along the way?
Bro if you need to talk about your ghosts just tell us about them we will try to help. But as long as you keep trying to boost your ego by trying to hurt people's confidence you are just going to hurt yourself in the long run...
Yea I know you will give me some bull**** about you being the most secure ****er in existence, or about your many sexual encounters but you know as well as I do that the people that have to try to show confidence are those who are really ****ed up inside...
It’s your choice; you can either help others and maybe get some help yourself, or you can waste your time posting **** that will be forgotten in a couple of months, just like you and your ego will be.
Come on I dare you to do your worst; give me all the bull**** about you being the hottest guy around, and how your super confidence and intellect get you all the girls. In the end I have heard it all before.
Love
Amethyst
P.D. Before you do something pathetic like try to flame me on my grammar or spelling please remember that I am bi-lingual and English is not my maiden language.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
don't sweat it dude I just didn't know what you meant.
+I hate to see Chrisman being encouraged. he can annoy people all by himself and loves to do so
I just didn't know what you meant.+I hate to see Chrisman being encouraged. he can annoy people all by himself and loves to do so
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
One beer, One desire to get some pvssy should be enough to get you kissing. The first time will be very awkward, like everything else..practice makes perfect.
Just kill yourself now.
You know that the above quote was wrote just above this quote?
"Along the way". Where am I going lol?
Hmmm, Bro and ghost in the same sentence. What's next? Anthrax and tampon in the same sentence?
I'm not hurting anyone here. I'm just bring insecurities to the surface so people can learn to deal with them instead of bottling them up.
My friends call me Jesus.
Like Tiger Woods.
Putting it on the line!!
Oui, une chapeau.
NoNickname
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Hey, you're me.
How old are you?
When I was 16 and went in for my first kiss I didn't "think" about it. Just do what feels natural. I basically explored her lips and tongue with my lips and tongue. Just keep it soft and easy and try not to slobber. Oh yeah, one more important thing, remember to "breath" through your nose. I held my breath the first time because I thought breathing in her face wouldn't be a good idea (you may not have this problem, I'm just weird like that).