Has anyone else found that in a relationship their girlfriend talks A LOT about and questions your feelings towards her. She has said she has issues and so I am pretty sure that she is insecure about a lot of things but she always asks 'how are you feeling' or 'why have you gone quiet on me' (if i didnt talk about how I felt about her) and as a result we always talk a lot about the dynamics of the relationship instead of actually having one! I think this is unhealthy....any other guys have or have had similar experiences?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
INSECURE women HELP!
- Thread starter rjames407
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I really don't think this is all that unusual. How old is your girlfriend? She may be a little insecure... (watch out... potentially could be psychotically jealous if she doesn't get her fix)!
No, really. I think young women are always wanting to know where they stand in the relationship... and know where you stand.
No, really. I think young women are always wanting to know where they stand in the relationship... and know where you stand.