Has anyone else found that in a relationship their girlfriend talks A LOT about and questions your feelings towards her. She has said she has issues and so I am pretty sure that she is insecure about a lot of things but she always asks 'how are you feeling' or 'why have you gone quiet on me' (if i didnt talk about how I felt about her) and as a result we always talk a lot about the dynamics of the relationship instead of actually having one! I think this is unhealthy....any other guys have or have had similar experiences?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
INSECURE women HELP!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I really don't think this is all that unusual. How old is your girlfriend? She may be a little insecure... (watch out... potentially could be psychotically jealous if she doesn't get her fix)!
No, really. I think young women are always wanting to know where they stand in the relationship... and know where you stand.
No, really. I think young women are always wanting to know where they stand in the relationship... and know where you stand.