Has anyone else found that in a relationship their girlfriend talks A LOT about and questions your feelings towards her. She has said she has issues and so I am pretty sure that she is insecure about a lot of things but she always asks 'how are you feeling' or 'why have you gone quiet on me' (if i didnt talk about how I felt about her) and as a result we always talk a lot about the dynamics of the relationship instead of actually having one! I think this is unhealthy....any other guys have or have had similar experiences?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
INSECURE women HELP!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I really don't think this is all that unusual. How old is your girlfriend? She may be a little insecure... (watch out... potentially could be psychotically jealous if she doesn't get her fix)!
No, really. I think young women are always wanting to know where they stand in the relationship... and know where you stand.
No, really. I think young women are always wanting to know where they stand in the relationship... and know where you stand.