Has anyone else found that in a relationship their girlfriend talks A LOT about and questions your feelings towards her. She has said she has issues and so I am pretty sure that she is insecure about a lot of things but she always asks 'how are you feeling' or 'why have you gone quiet on me' (if i didnt talk about how I felt about her) and as a result we always talk a lot about the dynamics of the relationship instead of actually having one! I think this is unhealthy....any other guys have or have had similar experiences?
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INSECURE women HELP!
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
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I really don't think this is all that unusual. How old is your girlfriend? She may be a little insecure... (watch out... potentially could be psychotically jealous if she doesn't get her fix)!
No, really. I think young women are always wanting to know where they stand in the relationship... and know where you stand.
No, really. I think young women are always wanting to know where they stand in the relationship... and know where you stand.