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Insane living dilemma.
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Master Don Juan
bro she wasn't groming you for ****. she was using you for favors and probably reduced rent.
the alcoholism and her being torn is your own mind trying to ratoinalize what you want to see. it's not happening.
the alcoholism and her being torn is your own mind trying to ratoinalize what you want to see. it's not happening.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
dude man the **** up. jesus christ man grow some ****ing balls no wonder she doesn't want you.
i'm a former crack cocaine addict. i have been clean off that **** since feb 12th, 2005. 12 and a half years.
i don't want to ****ing hear it. you are either ready to give it up or you aren't. don't blame her. no it's not easy. it's not the days of wine and roses (smile, and run away, like a child at play....)
be a man. you need to learn how to be a man before you even think about a woman. you are looking for a woman tom ake you complete. that's not how it works.
i'm a former crack cocaine addict. i have been clean off that **** since feb 12th, 2005. 12 and a half years.
i don't want to ****ing hear it. you are either ready to give it up or you aren't. don't blame her. no it's not easy. it's not the days of wine and roses (smile, and run away, like a child at play....)
be a man. you need to learn how to be a man before you even think about a woman. you are looking for a woman tom ake you complete. that's not how it works.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Thanks for that. Really. I know my alcoholism is not her fault. I also know she sure as hell ain't helping... I fell into a trap. I think that she broke me and you're right. I appreciate the posts, flames and all. She's getting fat anyway.
In what capacity are you her boss? Manager at a retail store? Uown a company and employ her? Tread lightly an be smart. Play this out smooth.
Uve done right by just playing it cool. If i were u i wpuld say "look, i dont want to interfere with your relationship or be a third wheel..its just not fair to anyone, i think its best of you stay with him full time but hey we are friends so feel free to hit me up whenever."
Be genuine about that when u tell her, dont do it like a bitter lil bish.
U need to detach yourself from her emotionally. Unless u enjoy being a beta male cuck.
Uve done right by just playing it cool. If i were u i wpuld say "look, i dont want to interfere with your relationship or be a third wheel..its just not fair to anyone, i think its best of you stay with him full time but hey we are friends so feel free to hit me up whenever."
Be genuine about that when u tell her, dont do it like a bitter lil bish.
U need to detach yourself from her emotionally. Unless u enjoy being a beta male cuck.
Julian. I am her boss at a picture framing and art gallery place. Real artsy crap type ****. I have stayed cool. It's difficult for me to detach emotionally but I'm getting there. She has no idea that this is how I am feeling. That's why I posted here. I would kill myself rather than say ANYTHING that indicates this bothers me.
The above advice about my addiction is right but... I am not connecting the two. True, I was a raging alcoholic and I know that. Julian, your advice is what I'm doing and I thank you for adding the third wheel ****. She really want's us to all HANG OUT ALL THE TIME. **** that. May I say this? I failed her and she waited seven years for me. I think the reason I'm so ****ed up is because of my ego. You all talk about Alpha Men and what not and tell me to man up. Not you personally but this board in general.
I WAS/AM getting better. I think the advice of telling me to man up means to set boundaries. I agree. I don't know how this happened. Well, I mainly let it because all of my problems with woman were I couldn't stand how INTO me they got. IN other words, I was NEVER like this and no one I know cares about this because I don't tell them.
I don't bother with labels like "Alpha", etc. but they have their use. To be honest, I don't know many people more Alpha then I am. I told you I own an artsy fag business. I have also been in two branches of the Military, been a Boxer, a Black Belt, Advanced Deep Sea Diver, Investor in various businesses. I know it's the internet and all that ****. I own an amazing house, drive the fastest ****ing car... I have dumped 20 plus chicks over my life. Hmmm, perhaps it's a personal problem. YES, I showed her weakness, I showed her... ****.
You know what kills me, all of these things are good but... being an ******* is what made her leave me. SO So Suave, be my Therapist because the last one just she loved me. Well, SHE MOVED THE **** OUT!!!
The above advice about my addiction is right but... I am not connecting the two. True, I was a raging alcoholic and I know that. Julian, your advice is what I'm doing and I thank you for adding the third wheel ****. She really want's us to all HANG OUT ALL THE TIME. **** that. May I say this? I failed her and she waited seven years for me. I think the reason I'm so ****ed up is because of my ego. You all talk about Alpha Men and what not and tell me to man up. Not you personally but this board in general.
I WAS/AM getting better. I think the advice of telling me to man up means to set boundaries. I agree. I don't know how this happened. Well, I mainly let it because all of my problems with woman were I couldn't stand how INTO me they got. IN other words, I was NEVER like this and no one I know cares about this because I don't tell them.
I don't bother with labels like "Alpha", etc. but they have their use. To be honest, I don't know many people more Alpha then I am. I told you I own an artsy fag business. I have also been in two branches of the Military, been a Boxer, a Black Belt, Advanced Deep Sea Diver, Investor in various businesses. I know it's the internet and all that ****. I own an amazing house, drive the fastest ****ing car... I have dumped 20 plus chicks over my life. Hmmm, perhaps it's a personal problem. YES, I showed her weakness, I showed her... ****.
You know what kills me, all of these things are good but... being an ******* is what made her leave me. SO So Suave, be my Therapist because the last one just she loved me. Well, SHE MOVED THE **** OUT!!!