"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Inner Game

Brian20o2

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Not to be hating or anything but the people on this forum need to learn about inner game.

Inner game is a frame of mind and the way you view the world as well as your personality. Asking how long untill you call, what move to make, how far to go on the first date, etc. are all thing that should be second nature once you get inner game.


Inner game makes everything natural, smooth and fun. Not stilted and awkward like routines and step by step guides.

Without inner game you have very little chance of sucess. I would say that 90-95% of your sucess is inner game. The rest being looks, money, etc.

When you get inner game you will notice your life getting better, you wil make more friends, be more active and have more fun being you (The new and inproved you)

Im not saying that routines and stuff dont work what Im saying is that you need a solid underlying inner game to make them work.

Work your inner game by discovering who you are, what you love, your passions, the type of people you like to be around, etc.

Get out and enjoy life. You might as well start now.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This always needs to be reminded. But majority of good posters here and good thread stress this alot.
 

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How do I get inner game?
 

Brian20o2

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"Work your inner game by discovering who you are, what you love, your passions, the type of people you like to be around, etc.
Get out and enjoy life."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Potbelly said:
How do I get inner game?
Inner game comes through confidence..... Just learn how to interact with people.
 
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