"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Inner Game

Brian20o2

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Not to be hating or anything but the people on this forum need to learn about inner game.

Inner game is a frame of mind and the way you view the world as well as your personality. Asking how long untill you call, what move to make, how far to go on the first date, etc. are all thing that should be second nature once you get inner game.


Inner game makes everything natural, smooth and fun. Not stilted and awkward like routines and step by step guides.

Without inner game you have very little chance of sucess. I would say that 90-95% of your sucess is inner game. The rest being looks, money, etc.

When you get inner game you will notice your life getting better, you wil make more friends, be more active and have more fun being you (The new and inproved you)

Im not saying that routines and stuff dont work what Im saying is that you need a solid underlying inner game to make them work.

Work your inner game by discovering who you are, what you love, your passions, the type of people you like to be around, etc.

Get out and enjoy life. You might as well start now.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This always needs to be reminded. But majority of good posters here and good thread stress this alot.
 

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How do I get inner game?
 

Brian20o2

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"Work your inner game by discovering who you are, what you love, your passions, the type of people you like to be around, etc.
Get out and enjoy life."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Potbelly said:
How do I get inner game?
Inner game comes through confidence..... Just learn how to interact with people.
 
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