"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Inner Game

Brian20o2

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Not to be hating or anything but the people on this forum need to learn about inner game.

Inner game is a frame of mind and the way you view the world as well as your personality. Asking how long untill you call, what move to make, how far to go on the first date, etc. are all thing that should be second nature once you get inner game.


Inner game makes everything natural, smooth and fun. Not stilted and awkward like routines and step by step guides.

Without inner game you have very little chance of sucess. I would say that 90-95% of your sucess is inner game. The rest being looks, money, etc.

When you get inner game you will notice your life getting better, you wil make more friends, be more active and have more fun being you (The new and inproved you)

Im not saying that routines and stuff dont work what Im saying is that you need a solid underlying inner game to make them work.

Work your inner game by discovering who you are, what you love, your passions, the type of people you like to be around, etc.

Get out and enjoy life. You might as well start now.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This always needs to be reminded. But majority of good posters here and good thread stress this alot.
 

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How do I get inner game?
 

Brian20o2

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"Work your inner game by discovering who you are, what you love, your passions, the type of people you like to be around, etc.
Get out and enjoy life."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Potbelly said:
How do I get inner game?
Inner game comes through confidence..... Just learn how to interact with people.
 
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