"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Inner Game - anyone ever been to a hypnotist/hypnotherapist?

bobbob

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Got the idea from reading "The Game", but I always knew my problems were deep-rooted and came from a lack of confidence with women.

Has anyone ever seen a hypnotist or a hypnotherapist (not sure the difference) to build their self-esteem and their confidence?

If you've been to one in the L.A. area and were impressed with the results, please PM me the name of the "doc". Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Consider using NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming).
 

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I have tried some online self hypnosis software and it worked pretty cool. I went to sleep to it and when i woke up i just felt more confident and happier. I usually do this 3 times a week whenever am feeling down or what not.
 

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Tony Robbins has some good hypno-therapy stuff available for building confidence / motivating yourself.

The programmes can be expensive - so are cds/dvds - that is the beauty of the net if you get my drift ;-)

Pretty much everything he does is NLP based so the post ^^ recommending that is good advice.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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where on the net?

As some of you say that this works - could you point me in the direction of where to get it off the net?

Cheers!!
 

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yeah, I'm a shallow inconsiderate and insecure bastard with no direction in life and I'm on a quest to become even more shallower with my desire to manipulate women..I NEED a damn hypnotist, where can I download some sh*t like that?
 
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