"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Inner Game - anyone ever been to a hypnotist/hypnotherapist?

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Got the idea from reading "The Game", but I always knew my problems were deep-rooted and came from a lack of confidence with women.

Has anyone ever seen a hypnotist or a hypnotherapist (not sure the difference) to build their self-esteem and their confidence?

If you've been to one in the L.A. area and were impressed with the results, please PM me the name of the "doc". Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Consider using NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming).
 
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I have tried some online self hypnosis software and it worked pretty cool. I went to sleep to it and when i woke up i just felt more confident and happier. I usually do this 3 times a week whenever am feeling down or what not.
 
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Tony Robbins has some good hypno-therapy stuff available for building confidence / motivating yourself.

The programmes can be expensive - so are cds/dvds - that is the beauty of the net if you get my drift ;-)

Pretty much everything he does is NLP based so the post ^^ recommending that is good advice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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where on the net?

As some of you say that this works - could you point me in the direction of where to get it off the net?

Cheers!!
 
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yeah, I'm a shallow inconsiderate and insecure bastard with no direction in life and I'm on a quest to become even more shallower with my desire to manipulate women..I NEED a damn hypnotist, where can I download some sh*t like that?
 
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