"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Inner Game - anyone ever been to a hypnotist/hypnotherapist?

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Got the idea from reading "The Game", but I always knew my problems were deep-rooted and came from a lack of confidence with women.

Has anyone ever seen a hypnotist or a hypnotherapist (not sure the difference) to build their self-esteem and their confidence?

If you've been to one in the L.A. area and were impressed with the results, please PM me the name of the "doc". Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Consider using NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming).
 
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I have tried some online self hypnosis software and it worked pretty cool. I went to sleep to it and when i woke up i just felt more confident and happier. I usually do this 3 times a week whenever am feeling down or what not.
 
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Tony Robbins has some good hypno-therapy stuff available for building confidence / motivating yourself.

The programmes can be expensive - so are cds/dvds - that is the beauty of the net if you get my drift ;-)

Pretty much everything he does is NLP based so the post ^^ recommending that is good advice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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where on the net?

As some of you say that this works - could you point me in the direction of where to get it off the net?

Cheers!!
 
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yeah, I'm a shallow inconsiderate and insecure bastard with no direction in life and I'm on a quest to become even more shallower with my desire to manipulate women..I NEED a damn hypnotist, where can I download some sh*t like that?
 
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