Say you get on myspace. You run a search on some girls. You find a cute girl. You check out more photos and are even more impressed. You want to message her. What do you say? This is my first time doing an online cold approach. Help a brotha out.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Initiating on Myspace.com
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
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I've had a blow job from a girl i met there ang got about 10 numbers and 100's of msns.
All i do is add them then just say something like "cute" or message them saying msn? It just is good to approach a lot of women as a man, no beating around the bush.
All i do is add them then just say something like "cute" or message them saying msn? It just is good to approach a lot of women as a man, no beating around the bush.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I just banged a girl on the 15th who I met on myspace on the 13th. She was a thickin'. I didn't post a LR b/c I didn't think of her as worthy. Ah...**** it.. here's her pics (sluuut and sluuuut2):
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_ker...://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_kerouac/my_photos
The thing that hooked me is that she was a weather reporter in Texas and Nebraska before she moved to my state. I still hold me head low in shame.
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_ker...://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_kerouac/my_photos
The thing that hooked me is that she was a weather reporter in Texas and Nebraska before she moved to my state. I still hold me head low in shame.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
She was a lil different in that she sent me a message first that said, "you've got a hot body!"
I just played it how I usually do from there. Shot a few emails back and fourth. She replied quickly to each one. I sent her my phone number and asked for hers. She sent me her phone number back within 5 minutes. I called her a minute later, we talked on the phone for a little over an hour. I wanted to meet up with her that night, but she wasn't down for it. She said she'd take a rain check.
Two days later, she posted a bulletin about how she'd be partying with friends at a local bar and anyone is was invited. I didn't want to, but my friend who flew into town that night wanted to go out. I met her at the bar with her friends. Then, me and my buddy isolated her, talked for about an hour, then I asked her back to my place to which she replied, 'no' many times. However, my buddy was really persistant with her by saying, "C'mon! don't be a pussy!" lol
She came over, we talked for a couple of minutes, then I told her that I'll show her the house. I took her by the hand and led her to my bedroom where the clothes came off and the banging started.
:cheer:
I just played it how I usually do from there. Shot a few emails back and fourth. She replied quickly to each one. I sent her my phone number and asked for hers. She sent me her phone number back within 5 minutes. I called her a minute later, we talked on the phone for a little over an hour. I wanted to meet up with her that night, but she wasn't down for it. She said she'd take a rain check.
Two days later, she posted a bulletin about how she'd be partying with friends at a local bar and anyone is was invited. I didn't want to, but my friend who flew into town that night wanted to go out. I met her at the bar with her friends. Then, me and my buddy isolated her, talked for about an hour, then I asked her back to my place to which she replied, 'no' many times. However, my buddy was really persistant with her by saying, "C'mon! don't be a pussy!" lol
She came over, we talked for a couple of minutes, then I told her that I'll show her the house. I took her by the hand and led her to my bedroom where the clothes came off and the banging started.
:cheer:
roman
Don Juan
I've met 3 cute girls on Myspace. I made out with one of them, got a blow job from another one, and banged the third one. What you gotta do is, like stated earlier, get them talking on MSN or some chat program like AOL. Do this by shooting them a brief message on Myspace saying something like, "Hey, your profile caught my eye. I'd like to get to know you better, what's your [address/screenname] on [MSN messenger/AOL]?" Then after talking to them a few times online briefly, only for like 15 minutes at a time (just enough to allow for your personality to shine through but not revealing too much about yourself), ask for her phone number. Call her up in a couple days from the time you get her number and make a date. This has worked for me several times in the past. I've also banged a girl that I met on hotornot.com, banged a girl I met on Yahoo! personals, and banged a 35 year old woman who I met on craigslist.org while I was staying in San Francisco a couple summers ago (I was 18 at the time).
Yikes! I just talked to one cute chic on IM. Things started off smoothly, but then she started complaining about the problems she had with her friends. I didn't want to fall into the "friend who listens" category, so I tried to offer her some "I'm-telling-it-like-it-is" advice and she got all offended. I told her to get away from that drama, and she was like bye. Oh well, I guess she wasn't the one. NEXT!!!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.