Say you get on myspace. You run a search on some girls. You find a cute girl. You check out more photos and are even more impressed. You want to message her. What do you say? This is my first time doing an online cold approach. Help a brotha out.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Initiating on Myspace.com
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
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I've had a blow job from a girl i met there ang got about 10 numbers and 100's of msns.
All i do is add them then just say something like "cute" or message them saying msn? It just is good to approach a lot of women as a man, no beating around the bush.
All i do is add them then just say something like "cute" or message them saying msn? It just is good to approach a lot of women as a man, no beating around the bush.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I just banged a girl on the 15th who I met on myspace on the 13th. She was a thickin'. I didn't post a LR b/c I didn't think of her as worthy. Ah...**** it.. here's her pics (sluuut and sluuuut2):
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_ker...://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_kerouac/my_photos
The thing that hooked me is that she was a weather reporter in Texas and Nebraska before she moved to my state. I still hold me head low in shame.
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_ker...://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_kerouac/my_photos
The thing that hooked me is that she was a weather reporter in Texas and Nebraska before she moved to my state. I still hold me head low in shame.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
She was a lil different in that she sent me a message first that said, "you've got a hot body!"
I just played it how I usually do from there. Shot a few emails back and fourth. She replied quickly to each one. I sent her my phone number and asked for hers. She sent me her phone number back within 5 minutes. I called her a minute later, we talked on the phone for a little over an hour. I wanted to meet up with her that night, but she wasn't down for it. She said she'd take a rain check.
Two days later, she posted a bulletin about how she'd be partying with friends at a local bar and anyone is was invited. I didn't want to, but my friend who flew into town that night wanted to go out. I met her at the bar with her friends. Then, me and my buddy isolated her, talked for about an hour, then I asked her back to my place to which she replied, 'no' many times. However, my buddy was really persistant with her by saying, "C'mon! don't be a pussy!" lol
She came over, we talked for a couple of minutes, then I told her that I'll show her the house. I took her by the hand and led her to my bedroom where the clothes came off and the banging started.
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I just played it how I usually do from there. Shot a few emails back and fourth. She replied quickly to each one. I sent her my phone number and asked for hers. She sent me her phone number back within 5 minutes. I called her a minute later, we talked on the phone for a little over an hour. I wanted to meet up with her that night, but she wasn't down for it. She said she'd take a rain check.
Two days later, she posted a bulletin about how she'd be partying with friends at a local bar and anyone is was invited. I didn't want to, but my friend who flew into town that night wanted to go out. I met her at the bar with her friends. Then, me and my buddy isolated her, talked for about an hour, then I asked her back to my place to which she replied, 'no' many times. However, my buddy was really persistant with her by saying, "C'mon! don't be a pussy!" lol
She came over, we talked for a couple of minutes, then I told her that I'll show her the house. I took her by the hand and led her to my bedroom where the clothes came off and the banging started.
:cheer:
roman
Don Juan
I've met 3 cute girls on Myspace. I made out with one of them, got a blow job from another one, and banged the third one. What you gotta do is, like stated earlier, get them talking on MSN or some chat program like AOL. Do this by shooting them a brief message on Myspace saying something like, "Hey, your profile caught my eye. I'd like to get to know you better, what's your [address/screenname] on [MSN messenger/AOL]?" Then after talking to them a few times online briefly, only for like 15 minutes at a time (just enough to allow for your personality to shine through but not revealing too much about yourself), ask for her phone number. Call her up in a couple days from the time you get her number and make a date. This has worked for me several times in the past. I've also banged a girl that I met on hotornot.com, banged a girl I met on Yahoo! personals, and banged a 35 year old woman who I met on craigslist.org while I was staying in San Francisco a couple summers ago (I was 18 at the time).
Yikes! I just talked to one cute chic on IM. Things started off smoothly, but then she started complaining about the problems she had with her friends. I didn't want to fall into the "friend who listens" category, so I tried to offer her some "I'm-telling-it-like-it-is" advice and she got all offended. I told her to get away from that drama, and she was like bye. Oh well, I guess she wasn't the one. NEXT!!!!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.