"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Atldude

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so am i fcuked if i am always initiating the phone call, text... she always responds.. but i am always the one initiating...

thanks guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alkali

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Yes. Yes you are. If she never calls, texts, talks first. EVER. Then yes.

You are ****ed. To her, you're a needy *****.
 

Monkey

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Guys SHOULD be initiating the phone calls to make dates.

You then judge her reaction to these date suggestions and on these dates to see if shes a keeper.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Atldude

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she does message me on msn sometimes... but what i wanted to find out was if she had sufficient IL
 

COD

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If U Are Getting Sex Who Cares Who Calls
 

Atldude

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well i am not... and she's not the type to put out... i am looking for something long term...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Atldude

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haven't heard from her in about a month... but she's been travelling.. i am screwed?
 

Alphamale1821

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your problem is your focusing way to much on this one chick. You need to date other chicks so that way when this broad doesn't pick up you've got another option.
 

Axcell

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Stop calling her, and wait for her to call you.
You sound so desperate right now, talk to more women; what are you doing being wrapped up on just one!
And if you haven't heard from her, it is probably because she is BUSY. She is not going to make her life revolved around you, give her some space. Drop her an email if she seems like she is going to respond to it while she is gone.
 
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