ok, I'm 17 and my problem is that I don't know how to get myself to kiss a girl (say on a first date) or start a hookup (unless I'm drunk... that seems to take the edge off). I've complemented and flattered girls, and I've flirted with them, but always in a joking manner to make it like I'm partially serious, or kidding (just incase). cause the thing is, I feel dumb and awkward saying stuff like "you have nice eyes," or "you're so beautiful." whether or not girls really go for it, it sounds so dumb to me to say all the typical stuff like it's a formula, and I subconsciously feel like they'll think I'm stupid too.
I know I think about it too much, but I need to resolve this. I need to take the steps, from talking, to outright seduction, to kissing her. also, I never know how she'll take it. I don't know when to do it, how to do it, if she's up for it... etc. I know there's probably material about this in the bible, so could someone link me to it? if not, help me out... I'm missing out on opportunities
I know I think about it too much, but I need to resolve this. I need to take the steps, from talking, to outright seduction, to kissing her. also, I never know how she'll take it. I don't know when to do it, how to do it, if she's up for it... etc. I know there's probably material about this in the bible, so could someone link me to it? if not, help me out... I'm missing out on opportunities
