You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Deus ex Pianoforte said:Sorry, just gotta throw this one in here real quick: Looks don't mean jack s.hit to chicks.
bigmil said:However, I have seen some very average guys hook up with hot girls just based on personality. QUOTE]
how do you know their personality won the girl over?
a guy that looks average to you might look hot to these girls
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dude if you saw her on the Howard Stern show a few years back you would know that she has very bizarre taste in men and has very low standardsDeus ex Pianoforte said:Dude. Anna Nicole Smith f.ucked J. Howard Marshall II. I'm sure she totally thought he was a regular George Clooney lookalike studmuffin though.:crackup:
What's that? Oh, she only did that because he was richer than God? But...you said no girl will ever f.uck a guy that she thinks is ugly. Yeah, that's right. Looks won't make or break you. Only help. Almost imperceptibly, I might add.