Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Deus ex Pianoforte said:Sorry, just gotta throw this one in here real quick: Looks don't mean jack s.hit to chicks.
bigmil said:However, I have seen some very average guys hook up with hot girls just based on personality. QUOTE]
how do you know their personality won the girl over?
a guy that looks average to you might look hot to these girls
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dude if you saw her on the Howard Stern show a few years back you would know that she has very bizarre taste in men and has very low standardsDeus ex Pianoforte said:Dude. Anna Nicole Smith f.ucked J. Howard Marshall II. I'm sure she totally thought he was a regular George Clooney lookalike studmuffin though.:crackup:
What's that? Oh, she only did that because he was richer than God? But...you said no girl will ever f.uck a guy that she thinks is ugly. Yeah, that's right. Looks won't make or break you. Only help. Almost imperceptibly, I might add.