"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Inevitable Run-In with Ex next week

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Renegade357

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Funny, I just had an encounter with one of my exes the other day. We dated for about 3 months a few years ago and she pulled the whole "cold and distant" routine on me. I dropped her immediately and went NC after she flaked on a date.

Anyway the whole encounter went pretty well. It was at a party and I just treated her the same as every other girl there. She was def acting weird around me and very quiet. The annoying part is she knew I was going to be at the party which was at my SISTERS house and she came anyway. I have no idea why nor do I care.

If anything I gained respect points with her but for the most part there is no win to be had in this situation. One shot per woman per lifetime.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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First of all you need to learn to be excited about opportunities with other women. There are lots of them out there. It makes it way easier to control your emotions when you know you have a phone number in your pocket.

Just smile when you see her. Keep it light and no heavy subjects. Period. Do that and you'll come out ahead.
 

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When it comes to women you don't analyze them and try to figure out why they do the things they do or what they are thinking. Often with experience you can figure it out but in the end it's pointless. You can ask every DJ in here what your ex g/f is thinking and you might get 55 different answers.

The only thing you can do is bottom line their actions and react accordingly. That means you have to be tough. It means you have to be willing to tell girls you really like to get lost when they cross the line. When you do things the right way you are dropping 10 out of 10 women, not the other way around. You do this until you find the right one. Most guys can't do that.

Your ex is now your ex for a good reason. Learn from mistakes you made with her but from this point on you give her NOTHING. You treat her like you treat every other girl out there that you don't care about. You act polite but do nothing above the call of duty. We don't care what she thinks and if we do we keep it to ourselves.
 

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Renegade357 said:
One shot per woman per lifetime.
Yeah but if he sells her a new phone he can make some commission off her ass.

A man has to have priorities.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Consider the most vicious and cruel motives and perspective she could have and that's probably the closest to the truth.

Exactly, there is no doubt she knows she hurt this guy's feelings yet she continues to toy with him. She cares nothing about him, she only cares about herself. This girl like all the other "bad girls" have the emotional maturity level of a child. They all have their day though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJinBlue said:
At this point, I want to bring her to her knees and let her off gently. Then I will rest and work on being alpha to start from that point forward.
Or you could just move on and forget her. Which you will be forced to do eventually. I guess you want to feel the pain first though.

It doesn't matter how mad you are. Face the fact that you're kind of screwed here because you care more than she does. And the one who cares the least controls the situation.
 
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