justjosh47
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oka I don't know much about there dating culture besides what I have learned from the girl I was trying to get with. Are there any big issues I should no about before I try to date?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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Indian Girls.....
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Spike_the_cowboy
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Ask her father if you can go out with her first?...
My bad~
My bad~
showtime17
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indian chicks are hot, but really hard to understand. i've been trying to get with some, but so far no luck
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They vary greatly
The difference between immigrant ones and native-born ones is like night and day. The only problem you may face is that in many cases their parents may not allow them to date. However, that should not effect your behavior. Do what you usually do and let the chips fall where they may. There are plenty of progressive Indians in the US, especially the 2nd generation parents.
The difference between immigrant ones and native-born ones is like night and day. The only problem you may face is that in many cases their parents may not allow them to date. However, that should not effect your behavior. Do what you usually do and let the chips fall where they may. There are plenty of progressive Indians in the US, especially the 2nd generation parents.
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I dated an Indian girl briefly in college during my AFC days, but it didn't matter anyway as she was hard over me. She was also a psychotic, drug-abusing Ivy League headcase who put up the perfect 'All-American Girl' front while doing ****ed up **** in private. She was a slut to the core, easy, and generally just a nasty human being.
I am merely relaying my sole experience with Indian women - I do not say this to label ALL Indian women as this and that. If a decent one came my way, I would definately be interested in hooking up with another South Asian babe, however.
I am merely relaying my sole experience with Indian women - I do not say this to label ALL Indian women as this and that. If a decent one came my way, I would definately be interested in hooking up with another South Asian babe, however.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
whoa baggage. hahaOriginally posted by jakethasnake
I dated an Indian girl briefly in college during my AFC days, but it didn't matter anyway as she was hard over me. She was also a psychotic, drug-abusing Ivy League headcase who put up the perfect 'All-American Girl' front while doing ****ed up **** in private. She was a slut to the core, easy, and generally just a nasty human being.
I am merely relaying my sole experience with Indian women - I do not say this to label ALL Indian women as this and that. If a decent one came my way, I would definately be interested in hooking up with another South Asian babe, however.
justjosh47
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Well she moved to the U.S two years ago to go to school at a small school in WV of all places but lives near me in VA and speackes perfect english but still has a diffrent kind of acsent , wich I find vary sexy . so I guees she would be an imagrent even though she seems more modernazed then a lot of imagrents from india that i have met , but she lives with her older brother who goes to school in VA and he is vary protective becouse her parents still live in india. so its going to be diffacult .
But one intresting thing iv noticed when we first met is that she looks like she is spanish. but vary hot, and I love the dark eyed , dark haired , tan skin type . maybe becouse iv lived in a white middle class world most of my life.
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But one intresting thing iv noticed when we first met is that she looks like she is spanish. but vary hot, and I love the dark eyed , dark haired , tan skin type . maybe becouse iv lived in a white middle class world most of my life.
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If she speaks good English that means she comes from an upper-class family in India, which means they are likely more Westernized than the typical Indian family. The brother thing may be a potential problem but just give it a shot and see what happens. What do you have to lose?
If she speaks good English that means she comes from an upper-class family in India, which means they are likely more Westernized than the typical Indian family. The brother thing may be a potential problem but just give it a shot and see what happens. What do you have to lose?
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Hey,
I'm an Indian, living in India. I had made a post about how things are back here. Don't know if any of you read it.
Here the chicks are overprotected and so are the guys to some extent, while growing up. This is just how the culture is. But we are all human beings after all and as much as the parents try to control, if the chick likes som guy then she will go around with him quietly.
Some families are open to dating and such but in some families finding out that their 23 year old daughter is seeing someone is like
But anyway, since her parents are in India it shouldnt be much of a problem(considering she likes you) The brother I dont think should really be much of a problem. She'll handle that part if you do get her.
And if she's been in US for two years, then the society there would definitely have had some impact on her, so it might be easier. Unless she's gonna get married off to some guy as soon as she finishes her studies.
Anyway, it wont be that difficult.
All the best.
I'm an Indian, living in India. I had made a post about how things are back here. Don't know if any of you read it.
Here the chicks are overprotected and so are the guys to some extent, while growing up. This is just how the culture is. But we are all human beings after all and as much as the parents try to control, if the chick likes som guy then she will go around with him quietly.
Some families are open to dating and such but in some families finding out that their 23 year old daughter is seeing someone is like
But anyway, since her parents are in India it shouldnt be much of a problem(considering she likes you) The brother I dont think should really be much of a problem. She'll handle that part if you do get her.
And if she's been in US for two years, then the society there would definitely have had some impact on her, so it might be easier. Unless she's gonna get married off to some guy as soon as she finishes her studies.
Anyway, it wont be that difficult.
All the best.
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Newsflash: there is a no shortage of people that think "whites" smell. Wake up. Every single stereotype white racists have of non-whites is held by others against them--especially the one about smelling. As the white share of the population declines, you'll get a taste of your own medicine. Whites should actively work to eliminate these stereotypes before they reap what they have sown.
Thanks for the response, Adolf. Despite that, they still outperform women that don't "smell awful." What does that say about those women? They must be really bad if the "master race" has to rely on "smelly" Indians over them.
Newsflash: there is a no shortage of people that think "whites" smell. Wake up. Every single stereotype white racists have of non-whites is held by others against them--especially the one about smelling. As the white share of the population declines, you'll get a taste of your own medicine. Whites should actively work to eliminate these stereotypes before they reap what they have sown.
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I dont know what your problem is, but dont even get me started with this bull**** you're trying to pull off.
And whats this thing with CURRY that some of you guys have ?
People usually wouldn't tell each other that they smell and things like that. In that case I don't know where you would stand.
I feel childish just talking like this, but I guess you bring it out in people.
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Yeah, I agree. That was pretty racist and insensitive. White people can smell fvcking funky too sometimes, so leave that shyt alone.
showtime17
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i still dont understand indian chicks...two weeks ago one indian chick asked me for my email, today she just ignored me...go figure...must have had something in her brain snap during exam period...oh well her loss
abcd_z
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Somehow, I think that was less of an "Indian" thing, and more of a "female" thing.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
in general, indian parents are strict about who their daughter dates. usually the parents that came to america after they married in india...those are the strict ones.
cute bangladesh girl in my class, not india but close to it, americanized also.
an indian professor at college, he's cool, no religion, practically americanized.
indian guy from the carribean, americanized also and cool
i find the more americanized indian ppl to be more cool and they are more open-minded.
cute bangladesh girl in my class, not india but close to it, americanized also.
an indian professor at college, he's cool, no religion, practically americanized.
indian guy from the carribean, americanized also and cool
i find the more americanized indian ppl to be more cool and they are more open-minded.
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hahahahahaha LOL! that was good.
showtime17
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I am gonna try to pimp some Indian chicks tonight, well any type of chicks that are hot. I've still not given up on the last one though...
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learningtopimp
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Hey I'm Indian born and raised here in the US. I would say that she might not be too open to dating but it is worth giving a shot....you've got nothing to lose right? But if you really like that Spanish look, go for Latina chicks, they are much more open about dating and sex.
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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