Increasing the probability...

[golf299]

Is there anyway to increase the probablity of having the girl make the first move...

here's the situation: i know this girl. we see each other often in a professional setting. she just recently aquired an AFC bf. but i can tell that there is the possibility of something there between us...

but im not the type to come right out and go knocking on a girl's door who is already involved. so is there anything i can do to increase the likelihood of her making the first move?

or should i just simply ask her out on a date and see if she accepts and then act accordingly?

 

[The TallOne]

I understand that she is in a relationship.

But, don't go tryin to win her over... yet.

Play the C&F part with her, don't touch her.. and dont' see her all that often.

If you put too much preassure (or any preassure actually) right now.. you'll get burned, and you'll have blown your shot with this girl.

Best approach to take to this.. is the relaxed approach. Patience is a virtue.

Take it from someone who has been there before.

The hardest advice though.. is to actively seek to date other women, and don't fall into the oneitis trap.

 

[jakeyboy]

however you do realize that you're tons better than that AFC guy... and if she is at the end of it all, willing to leave him for you.. beware. she is highly capable of doing that to you one day, when she finds someone else whom she thinks is better than you. play your cards right mate... do what you think is best.

 

[golf299]

thanks for the advice guys.

 

[Cheiradawg]

Don't **** in your sandbox.

 

[DJ_Dork]

ask her to hang out for drinks.

 

[golf299]

be patient: check

seek others: check

ask her for drinks: when would this be a safe proposition?

 

[Alpine]

If you are worried about women who leave realtionship for a better man, kinda limits the field a bit doesn't it?

I thought that is preprogrammed in all women's brains.

 

[golf299]

im actually not at all worried about that