"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Went out with a woman who's somewhere between 30 and 35 (don't know the age, she didn't tell, playfully LOL). We drove in her car, went somewhere quiet, was the first time we met after talking about a week Instagram. I was not expecting sex so I was calm, but I liked her reactions, moans when we were kissing and touching each other. Now after the meeting she tells me "Next time we have sex, no need to complicate it any further".

Do I set next time up? Or let her?

And one more thing: it was the hot texting and part sexting that led the situation up to here. From here until the supposed next time, do I keep sexting with her? Or let her miss it a bit and make her want the real thing more
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do I set next time up? Or let her?
I would set it up, but not a big deal imo.
And one more thing: it was the hot texting and part sexting that led the situation up to here.
This falls right in line with what @Amante Silvestre talks allot about and how I myself like to play the texting game. You've broken down barriers, built comfort, escalated and set the pace, through texting with minimal effort and without having even seen her once. Without knowing anymore about the finer details of the dialogue, I would suggest keeping up the sexual banter at the same pace as you have been going at. Maybe, Amante could chime in. It really can make it that much more an effortless and seamless interaction, once an individual understands the mechanics and function of the tool of messaging. It's an art in and of itself, that I admit, can blow a set out, but it can be a game changer and the reward far outweighs the risk, imo.
 

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A 30 year good looking women tells you ‘I have to have sex with you next time I see you.’

And

You do all that, and now you don’t know what to do?


Trolling and not humble territory here.
 

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A 30 year good looking women tells you ‘I have to have sex with you next time I see you.’

And

You do all that, and now you don’t know what to do?


Trolling and not humble territory here.
Not at all, just wanted some thoughts on how much to push that "next time" and whether to keep the sexting going on or not, that's all. I don't troll, you're confusing me with someone else. I know what to do, doesn't hurt to have second thoughts :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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