"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Including Her Into my Social Circle

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So I went out to a Latin Club last Friday celebrating my bros return from the military. I invited some people I know from grad school, and one of the girls (who is married) I invited brought a Columbian friend. Her Columbian friend and I hit it off pretty good, and eventually we were grinding on the dance floor the whole night. When I left, I got her number. I really think she is into me and I know she is single.

However, I do want to hang out with her again but only socially. It's not like I really want to call her up and go on a date since I would rather spend my energy now in reaching my goals. She is really cool for me to keep in touch with. Is there something wrong in thinking like this? Or I may be overthinking this...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How will you feel when some guy from your social circle bangs her? If you wouldn't care...do it, if you would, ask her out on a date.
 
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Warrior74 said:
How will you feel when some guy from your social circle bangs her? If you wouldn't care...do it, if you would, ask her out on a date.
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The answer I was looking for! Can't believe it was starring in front of my face...
 
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Warrior74 said:
How will you feel when some guy from your social circle bangs her? If you wouldn't care...do it, if you would, ask her out on a date.
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Do you remember the standard stategy ,"Isolate and escalate" ?
Well you best follow that advice BEFORE you include her into your circle. Unless you do, some other horndog in your circle is going do exactly that with her right in front of you.
 
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jophil28 said:
Do you remember the standard stategy ,"Isolate and escalate" ?
Well you best follow that advice BEFORE you include her into your circle. Unless you do, some other horndog in your circle is going do exactly that with her right in front of you.
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Interesting point. I guess you're saying I should mess around with her first. Then this brings me to another question. How do I keep that tie but have her not expect things to go any further (relationship, ect.)? Would it be the type of activities we do, how often I contact her is important, ect.?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do I keep that tie but have her not expect things to go any further (relationship, ect.)? Would it be the type of activities we do, how often I contact her is important, ect.?
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Lol. Usually guys come here to find out how to attract women. You haven't even f closed yet, and you're worried about how to keep her at bay. Talk about having the frame.
 
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Lol. Usually guys come here to find out how to attract women. You haven't even f closed yet, and you're worried about how to keep her at bay. Talk about having the frame.
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I guess I'm looking too much further along. But I think I see where you're coming from. Maybe this is the type of AFC thinking I should avoid?
 
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