I have met a girl that I'm really into. I'm getting all signs of interest She is busy as hell though so I haven't gotten to see her very much : she works two jobs and has to travel a couple of times per month for travel. We've gone out once and I want be able to see her for about another week. Is this a good time to use the tactic of inciting some jealousy. She texts me from work about 10 times per day since she can't make personal calls. She asked me what I was doing this weekend. I was debating about whether it would be a good idea to tell her I have a date this weekend just to possibly make her jealousy and possibly move things forward faster....and also for pre-emptive LJBF prevention?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Inciting Jealousy Tactic
- Thread starter labyrinth
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
true romance
Don Juan
Tell her you are really busy on week-end but you can squeeze in a date with her... Direct game here 
No LJBF for sure
No LJBF for sure
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
YUP. You only play games when you either suspect that she's playing games first, OR when you know for a fact that you're getting played. Otherwise, keep things as real as possible.Sandow said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.