"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Inciting Jealousy Tactic

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I have met a girl that I'm really into. I'm getting all signs of interest She is busy as hell though so I haven't gotten to see her very much : she works two jobs and has to travel a couple of times per month for travel. We've gone out once and I want be able to see her for about another week. Is this a good time to use the tactic of inciting some jealousy. She texts me from work about 10 times per day since she can't make personal calls. She asked me what I was doing this weekend. I was debating about whether it would be a good idea to tell her I have a date this weekend just to possibly make her jealousy and possibly move things forward faster....and also for pre-emptive LJBF prevention?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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true romance

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Tell her you are really busy on week-end but you can squeeze in a date with her... Direct game here :)

No LJBF for sure
 

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no you need to meet up with her, these are times when you don't need to play games.
 

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Sandow said:
no you need to meet up with her, these are times when you don't need to play games.
YUP. You only play games when you either suspect that she's playing games first, OR when you know for a fact that you're getting played. Otherwise, keep things as real as possible.
 

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Thanks for the feedback. I guess I will save that trick for when I need it, which hopefully I will not.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks DonS. That's soem good advice! I expect she will text me any minute now so I will probably just avoid replying before she has to go out of town.
 

Mavrick

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labyrinth said:
I was debating about whether it would be a good idea to tell her I have a date this weekend just to possibly make her jealousy and possibly move things forward faster....and also for pre-emptive LJBF prevention?
Never tell a girl you have a date without her even asking. You're making it blatantly obvious that you have to use tactics to gain her interest.
 
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