"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Inciting Jealousy Tactic

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I have met a girl that I'm really into. I'm getting all signs of interest She is busy as hell though so I haven't gotten to see her very much : she works two jobs and has to travel a couple of times per month for travel. We've gone out once and I want be able to see her for about another week. Is this a good time to use the tactic of inciting some jealousy. She texts me from work about 10 times per day since she can't make personal calls. She asked me what I was doing this weekend. I was debating about whether it would be a good idea to tell her I have a date this weekend just to possibly make her jealousy and possibly move things forward faster....and also for pre-emptive LJBF prevention?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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true romance

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Tell her you are really busy on week-end but you can squeeze in a date with her... Direct game here :)

No LJBF for sure
 

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no you need to meet up with her, these are times when you don't need to play games.
 

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Sandow said:
no you need to meet up with her, these are times when you don't need to play games.
YUP. You only play games when you either suspect that she's playing games first, OR when you know for a fact that you're getting played. Otherwise, keep things as real as possible.
 

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Thanks for the feedback. I guess I will save that trick for when I need it, which hopefully I will not.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks DonS. That's soem good advice! I expect she will text me any minute now so I will probably just avoid replying before she has to go out of town.
 

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labyrinth said:
I was debating about whether it would be a good idea to tell her I have a date this weekend just to possibly make her jealousy and possibly move things forward faster....and also for pre-emptive LJBF prevention?
Never tell a girl you have a date without her even asking. You're making it blatantly obvious that you have to use tactics to gain her interest.
 
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