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You can't argue that women don't prefer tall men. That's just a given
Some of the 5'4"-5-'8" babes had a "competition" with 6'2" and above guys. A competition that doesn't exist when they match a man closer to their own height.
I do too. While some of us overly analytical folks take too long to allow ourselves to feel confident they already have it from jump and are able to mimic actions without taking forever to convince themselves that they can.
Agreed. Even if the analytical type believes he can, he will want to formulate the perfect detailed plan for action first. The ****y guy will just get started.
Yep. Overly analytical guy can become a master of positive thinking though. And end up with barrel fulls of confidence. Just like stupid confidence guy. But he had to learn it. Where stupid confidence guy had it always. Confidence makes the difference.
That's interesting. I always thought that analytical types tend to be very risk averse and perhaps overly aware of the 1,003 things that can go wrong. I would think they would be natural skeptics or borderline pessimists.
When he becomes intelligent enough to not fear what won't happen. Alot of folks keep themselves small hedging their bets, and always shooting low "so they won't be wrong". When they don't realize most of the really big and successful guys made ALOT of misstakes, which they learned from and become even better.
This is part of my problem. I try to see reality as it is, so I can't get into the idea of "delusional self confidence". The PUA concept of being some smirking, arrogant, narcissistic @sshole makes no sense to me. I can't think of myself as a 10 (or anyone else as a 10, for that matter), because I'm too aware of my own flaws, and that all humans have flaws.
But Deion Sanders earns the right to be arrogant if he so chose, he was a famous athlete, fit, rich etc.....
He was arrogant in College. That super huge view and expectations of himself allowed himself to perform at a higher level. He didn't wait for the groups to allow him that level of SELF confidence. It was always his and he owned it.
A "Quiet" Deion will have always had that huge expectations of himself but you would never hear it. You'd hear humble talk. But the loud Deion must have felt voicing it gave him power because he held himself accountable. As usual it's best not to voice your points of confidence because they are easily attacked. But if those points are solid and consistently proveable im not sure.
You must live in a shelter this is so laughable
How would women not date a manlet when the average height is in the manlet range worldwide mostly worldwide?the average height in America is 5"9 south America is 5"7
I never said 5"9 is manlet. More like 5"5
Depends on the culture of women, but we can guess most women go for height. It's more nuanced than that. You write in absolutism
Guilty
You forgot the most important one:Glad you agree, there are many users in this board who thinks its a conscious decision to be confident or insecure, they call it "inner game".
"nothing wrong in being short, bald and fat bro, she didnt accept your invitation cause she felt your insecurity", I read posts like this many times as answer to a guy asking for suggestions.
An other one is "step up your game" or "you need a tighter inner game bro".
