I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Daydream Engineer said:
I dont trip anymore about women either. I was asking this question because today as i walked out of my first class i saw an HB 9.5 stop and yelled " Slave..... hurry up!", and then as she walked down the hallway,a nerdy looking guy came running holding several books and walked next to her... gave her a coke.... and then she threw it on the ground and yelled at his face.." i said Diet! you loser", and i was shocked as he ran back struggling with books in hand . She caused a scene... and everyone was looking at her and i said " What aaaaaaa B1tch" out loud... and people went " ooaahh'... and she got in my face and said " Who calling a B1tch... you f*cking azzhole!', and i told her....." You and your mom because like mother like daughter... your acting like a demonB1tch and your behavoir is unacceptable .". I walked away.... and she followed me demanding me to tell her who i was to call her that... and i ignored her.. and then after a couple moments she said that she can get any guy to do anything... and i told her.... " maybe... but im a real man and your not even that attractive... your eyes are yellow and your cellulite is showing".Solomon said:
I believe by being independent..... and not caring about women... since they are everywhere is the water the neutralizes the puzzy power fire. But since many AFcs have given her a princess reality... the best thing to do is to only concentrate on yourself.Mike32ct said:
I completely agree... i believe that she should be trying to catch me...she should be paying for the rockstar sex i give her.... and the experience of taking my time to hangout with her hahaslaog said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She didnt have cellutite i disillusioned her and lied to her.... but i love ****ing with her mind... the hotter the girl the more insecure she is right?Solomon said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Daydream Engineer said:
Damn...