Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Daydream Engineer said:
I dont trip anymore about women either. I was asking this question because today as i walked out of my first class i saw an HB 9.5 stop and yelled " Slave..... hurry up!", and then as she walked down the hallway,a nerdy looking guy came running holding several books and walked next to her... gave her a coke.... and then she threw it on the ground and yelled at his face.." i said Diet! you loser", and i was shocked as he ran back struggling with books in hand . She caused a scene... and everyone was looking at her and i said " What aaaaaaa B1tch" out loud... and people went " ooaahh'... and she got in my face and said " Who calling a B1tch... you f*cking azzhole!', and i told her....." You and your mom because like mother like daughter... your acting like a demonB1tch and your behavoir is unacceptable .". I walked away.... and she followed me demanding me to tell her who i was to call her that... and i ignored her.. and then after a couple moments she said that she can get any guy to do anything... and i told her.... " maybe... but im a real man and your not even that attractive... your eyes are yellow and your cellulite is showing".Solomon said:
I believe by being independent..... and not caring about women... since they are everywhere is the water the neutralizes the puzzy power fire. But since many AFcs have given her a princess reality... the best thing to do is to only concentrate on yourself.Mike32ct said:
I completely agree... i believe that she should be trying to catch me...she should be paying for the rockstar sex i give her.... and the experience of taking my time to hangout with her hahaslaog said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She didnt have cellutite i disillusioned her and lied to her.... but i love ****ing with her mind... the hotter the girl the more insecure she is right?Solomon said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Daydream Engineer said:
Damn...